In this blog post, I’m going to explore down to earth advice from the Bible on creating a strong and fulfilling marriage. From everyday communication tips to navigating conflicts, we will uncover steps to build a lasting relationship with your spouse.  Let’s begin!

Hey there, folks! Today, let’s have a real talk about marriage. It’s not always sunshine and rainbows, but with a little wisdom from the good book, we can navigate the ups and downs together. Join me as we dive into practical tips and biblical insights for building a rock-solid marriage in the real world.

Let’s Talk: Keeping the Lines of Communication Open
Alright, let’s kick things off with everyone’s favorite topic: communication. We’ve all been there, the silent treatment, the misunderstandings, the “I wish you would just understand me!” moments. My Pastor has explained in the past the differences, Men Are Like Waffles–Women Are Like Spaghetti (Affiliate linked to a book that explains this in detail comes highly recommended. First affiliate link posted, I don’t really plan anymore but you never know), linked book goes over the complexities of how the differences of how men and women think and how we can begin to understand the opposite sex.
But Ephesians 4:15 reminds us to “speak the truth in love.” Translation? Be honest, but be kind. Let’s chat about how to keep those lines of communication open, even when things get tough.

Practical Tip: Schedule regular check-ins with your spouse. Grab a cup of coffee, put away the screens, and really listen to each other. It’s amazing what a little face-to-face conversation can do for your relationship. I personally enjoy long drives with my wife. The truck becomes our space to enjoy the sights while diving into great conversations.

Love & Respect: Showing Appreciation for Your Partner
Now, let’s talk love and respect, the bread and butter of any healthy marriage. Ephesians 5:25 tells husbands to love their wives sacrificially, while Ephesians 5:33 encourages wives to respect their husbands. But what does that look like in the real world?

Practical Tip: Take time each day to show appreciation for your partner. It could be a simple “thank you” for taking out the trash, doing laundry, making dinner, or a surprise love note tucked into their lunch bag. Small gestures go a long way in keeping the love alive.

Forgiveness and Grace: Moving Past Mistakes
Alright, let’s get real for a minute. No marriage is perfect, and we all mess up from time to time. But here’s the good news: forgiveness is always on the table! Colossians 3:13 reminds us to “forgive one another,” just as the Lord has forgiven us. So how do we put that into practice?

Practical Tip: When tensions run high and tempers flare, take a deep breath and remember the power of forgiveness. Take a minute to think about where it’s going and how it’s not the direction you want it to go. A truly loving couple recognizes that usually in the middle of a heated conversation/argument. Let go of grudges and extend grace to your spouse, it really is the key to moving forward and growing stronger together. Sound impossible? It usually is, without Christ.  Speaking from my own journey, the foundation of our bond is our shared love for Christ. It’s an integral part of what makes our relationship thrive and how we work this stuff out.

Shared Faith: Growing Together in Your Relationship with God
Last but not least, let’s talk about faith. Whether you’re a seasoned believer or just dipping your toes into the waters of spirituality, sharing a faith journey with your spouse can deepen your connection like nothing else. But how do you make it work in the real world?

Practical Tip: Find ways to incorporate faith into your daily lives. Whether it’s praying together before meals, attending church services as a family, or reading the Bible together before bed or in the morning before the day, make faith a priority in your marriage. It’s the glue that holds everything together!

Conclusion:
As we wrap up our conversation, let’s remember that marriage isn’t always easy, but with a little wisdom from the Lord and a lot of love, we can weather any storm. And by prioritizing communication, love, forgiveness, and faith, we can build a marriage that’s as strong as it is fulfilling. So here’s to us, navigating the real world of marriage with grace, humor, and a whole lot of love.

My hope is that this provides inspiration for your life and strengthens your relationships with both your spouse and with God.


Blessed beyond measure,
Pete